In Christian relationships, commitment is not only an emotional bond but a spiritual promise, rooted in God's love and faithfulness. Relationships often face challenges that test the strength of our commitment, so it’s helpful to pause and reflect on how we prioritize and serve our partners. By doing so, we can align our relationships with Christ-like love and dedication.
Commitment in a relationship is more than just saying “I love you” or “I care for you.” It’s about demonstrating love through consistent actions, open communication, forgiveness, and, above all, prioritizing your partner’s well-being alongside your own. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 reminds us that love is patient, kind, and does not seek its own interests, meaning commitment calls for sacrifice and loyalty.
To understand where you stand in terms of commitment, consider taking a self-reflection test based on 20 thought-provoking questions. The questions cover areas like communication, trust, sacrifice, and loyalty. For example, you might ask yourself, “Do I take responsibility for resolving conflicts?” or “Am I willing to compromise for my partner's happiness?” With each “Yes” answer scoring one point, your total score will help you evaluate your dedication to your relationship.
- 16–20: This score reflects a deeply committed relationship where you strive to embody God’s love and service.
- 11–15: You are showing moderate commitment, with room to grow. Reflect on areas for improvement.
- 6–10: There’s some commitment, but it might be time to evaluate areas where greater dedication is needed.
- 0–5: This low score indicates a need to seek guidance and prayerfully consider the direction of your relationship.
No matter your score, God offers grace and wisdom to help you grow in love and commitment. Embrace open conversations, prayer, and mutual encouragement with your partner. Commitment is a journey, and as Philippians 1:6 says, “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.” Ask God to strengthen your love and lead you both toward a fulfilling, Christ-centered relationship.
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Here’s the list of questions designed to measure someone’s level of commitment in a relationship. Each "Yes" answer can be valued at 1 point, and each "No" at 0 points. With 20 questions, this would result in a total score range from 0 to 20, which you can use to assess commitment levels.
- Do you make an effort to communicate daily with your partner?
- Are you willing to compromise for your partner's needs or happiness?
- Do you envision a long-term future with your partner?
- Are you comfortable discussing difficult topics with your partner?
- Do you support your partner's personal growth and goals?
- Do you take responsibility for resolving conflicts with your partner?
- Are you comfortable making sacrifices for your relationship?
- Do you prioritize your partner's well-being in your decisions?
- Are you committed to being honest and transparent with your partner?
- Do you feel fulfilled in your current relationship?
- Are you consistent in your efforts to show love and appreciation?
- Do you have confidence in the strength of your relationship?
- Are you willing to work through challenges rather than giving up?
- Do you trust your partner with your personal vulnerabilities?
- Are you comfortable sharing your life and space with your partner?
- Do you stay connected with your partner, even when apart?
- Are you loyal to your partner and the relationship?
- Do you feel a sense of responsibility for your partner's happiness?
- Are you willing to adjust plans for the sake of the relationship?
- Do you see yourself being committed to this relationship for the foreseeable future?
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Scoring Guide:
- 16–20: Highly committed
- 11–15: Moderately committed
- 6–10: Somewhat committed
- 0–5: Low commitment
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